Do you know what verbal abuse is? Have you ever heard of or experienced the insidious mental and emotional effects of verbal abuse? Read below. Go to www.verbalabuse.com.

STOP VERBAL ABUSE.

From author of “The Verbally Abusive Relationship”, Patrica Evans…

Verbal abuse creates emotional pain and mental anguish. It is a lie told to you or about you by your abuser. Generally, verbal abuse defines people telling them what they are, what they think, their motives, and so forth. The best way to deal with a verbally abusive relationship, whether you are the target of verbal abuse or the perpetrator, is to find out everything you can about verbally abusive relationships and their dynamics. Usually one person is blaming, accusing, even name calling, and the other is defending and explaining.

There is a lot of information at verbalabuse.com. Please don’t miss the links both at the left side-bar and near the bottom of this page. As you find out about verbal abuse, you can find out what is wrong with people who are verbally abusive, and what you might do about it.
A phone consultation pulls it all together in just 1 hour. Please call 925 934 5972 for details.

Most people targeted by verbal abuse explain why what they’ve just heard is not true or not okay. They explain themselves because they believe the perpetrator is rational and can hear them and the relationship will then get better. Then they usually hear more verbal abuse, for instance, “You’re too sensitive.” At that point they don’t usually realize that they have just been defined, and, therefore, verbally abused again.

Since the target of verbal abuse is often blamed, ignored, or yelled at, s/he may have difficulty recognizing just what is going on in the relationship.

I hope that if you suspect verbal abuse in your relationship, that you will read all four of my books. Each is a quarter of the picture.

Verbal Abuse ranges from insidious manipulation and confusion to direct outbursts of anger. Please, please, please!! If you are in unhappy in a relationship, counselors and therapy isn’t working, and you can’t seem to communicate with rationally your partner, I URGE you to read The Verbally Abusive Relationship as part of your discovery/healing process.

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By: Lindsey

Joseph Jang, an Australian fashion designer, reconstructed denim into an abstract work of art. When designing a collection, Jang is inspired by many different influences, a song, movie, theatre production and history. His “ultimate dream would be to establish a luxury brand and change the way people view fashion like Coco Chanel did.”

Jang started to appreciate fashion when he was a teenager after seeing John Galliano’s collections but his love for fashion began at a very young age. When Jang was four he saw Disney’s “The Little Mermaid” and fell in love with the princesses’ dresses and started designing dresses for them. He also credits his mother as being a big influence because of her passion for beautiful and unique designs. He has a simple design philosophy: “We should always be aware of the flow but never a trend and that’s how I approach designing.”

Check out Joseph Jang’s blog here.

(© Josie Lee)

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Tweet of the year.

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